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Onesimus

A runaway slave who met Paul in prison and was sent home as a beloved brother.

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A runaway slave who met Paul in prison and was sent home as a beloved brother.

  • Runaway
  • Changed
  • Useful

“Formerly he was useless to you, but now he is indeed useful to you and to me.”

(ESV)

Introduction

Onesimus was a slave in Philemon's household. He ran away, perhaps after wronging his master or taking something, since Paul offers to repay anything he owes. Somehow he came to Paul, who was in prison, and became a believer. Paul calls him my child, whose father I became in my imprisonment.

His name means useful. Paul makes a gentle joke of it: formerly he was useless to you, but now he is indeed useful to you and to me. Paul would have liked to keep him, but sent him back to Colossae with a letter, asking Philemon to receive him as a beloved brother. Paul sent him with Tychicus to the Colossians too, calling him our faithful and beloved brother, who is one of you.

Formerly he was useless to you, but now he is indeed useful to you and to me.

(ESV)
Name means
“Useful” (Greek)
Home
Colossae
Role
Slave of Philemon, then a faithful brother
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Onesimus's story

The road home
  1. Beginning

    Useless

    A slave who runs away.

  2. Turning point

    My child in prison

    He meets Paul and believes.

  3. High point

    Useful

    He serves Paul in his chains.

  4. Turning point

    Sent back

    He returns to the master he left.

  5. Ending

    Faithful and beloved brother

    Sent to the church as one of them.

Starts as a runaway slave. Ends as a faithful and beloved brother.

Where Onesimus lived and went

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ColossaeRome
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How Onesimus is wired

Why there's no type here

Onesimus never speaks in Scripture; Paul speaks for him, too little to type him honestly.

Strengths & struggles

What's good in Onesimus

Became useful to Paul in prison (). Faithful and beloved (). Willing to go back ().

Where Onesimus struggles

He ran away from his master, and may have owed him ().

What Onesimus wanted most

Scripture does not say.

What Onesimus feared most

Scripture does not say.

Onesimus's people

The Lord

JesusA brother both in the flesh and in the Lord (Philem 16).

Friends

TychicusTraveled with him to Colossae ().

Discipled or reached

PaulMy child, whose father I became in my imprisonment (Philem 10).

Tension

PhilemonHis master, asked to receive him as a brother (Philem 15-17).

Family of Faith

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AbrahamJesus

c. AD 25 – AD 90 (debated). Knew Jesus face to face.

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Where this points to Christ

Onesimus went home with someone else paying his debt.

Paul wrote, If he owes you anything, charge that to my account (). That is what Christ does for every runaway: he pays the debt and sends us home as family. A man whose name meant useful learned that his worth came from being loved in the Lord ().

Questions to sit with

Onesimus had to go back and face the person he wronged. Is there a road home you have been avoiding?

Paul changed his label from useless to useful to brother. Whom have you labeled?

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