Esau was born first, red and hairy, with his twin Jacob gripping his heel. He grew up a skillful hunter, a man of the field, and Isaac loved him for the game he brought home. One day he came in exhausted and sold his birthright to Jacob for a bowl of red stew. Scripture sums it up: Esau despised his birthright.
Later Jacob, with their mother's help, took Isaac's blessing too. Esau cried out with an exceedingly great and bitter cry and planned to kill his brother. Twenty years passed. When Jacob finally came home, terrified, with gifts sent ahead, Esau ran to meet him, embraced him, kissed him, and wept. He said he had enough and did not need the gifts. He settled in Seir and became the father of Edom.
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But Esau ran to meet him and embraced him and fell on his neck and kissed him, and they wept.
Name means
Linked to “hairy” (); also called Edom, “red” ()
Home
Beersheba, then the hill country of Seir
Role
Firstborn of Isaac; father of the Edomites
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Esau's story
Running to meet his brother
Beginning
Born first
A hunter, his father's favorite.
Turning point
A bowl of stew
He sells his birthright.
Low point
The blessing stolen
A great and bitter cry.
Low point
Plotting revenge
He means to kill Jacob.
Turning point
Four hundred men
He comes out to meet his brother.
Ending
He ran to meet him
An embrace, a kiss, and tears.
Starts as a hungry firstborn. Ends as a brother who ran to forgive.
Where Esau lived and went
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How Esau is wired
The Enthusiast
Enneagram 7, Challenger wing
To be satisfied and not to go without.
Scripture doesn't give us much here, so treat this as a best guess.
At their best, toward 5 Under stress, toward 1
Why we think so
1
Lives for now. He trades his birthright for a meal. ()
2
Out in the field. A skillful hunter, a man of the field. ()
3
Moves on. Twenty years later, he says, I have enough. ()
His anger is big and direct, and he arrives with four hundred men. ()
The Investigator. At his best he is generous and settled: I have enough, my brother. ()
The Reformer. Pushed to loss, he turns bitter and plans to kill. ()
Why so tentative
Genesis shows Esau in a few vivid scenes. His appetite and quick feelings fit a 7, but some read him as an 8.
Other lenses
Big Five. Read from what is recorded in Genesis.
ReservedOutgoing
SteadyReactive
ChallengingAccommodating
SpontaneousDisciplined
TraditionalCurious
DISC style: Physical, impulsive, warm-hearted.
Strengths & struggles
What's good in Esau
Skillful in the field (). Honored his father (). Forgave his brother ().
Where Esau struggles
Lived for the moment (; ). Rage after the stolen blessing (). Married to grieve his parents ().
Esau traded his inheritance for a meal; in Christ, the inheritance is kept for us.
Hebrews holds Esau up as a warning: he sold his birthright for a single meal (). In Christ, God gives us an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled and unfading, kept in heaven (). And Esau's run to embrace Jacob points ahead to the father in Jesus' parable who ran, embraced and kissed his son ().
Questions to sit with
1
What is your bowl of stew, the thing that feels urgent but costs too much?
2
Esau ran to embrace the brother who wronged him. Who might you run toward?
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