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Esau

Jacob's twin, a hunter who traded his birthright for a bowl of stew, then ran to embrace the brother who cheated him.

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Jacob's twin, a hunter who traded his birthright for a bowl of stew, then ran to embrace the brother who cheated him.

  • Impulsive
  • Outdoorsman
  • Forgiving

“But Esau ran to meet him and embraced him and fell on his neck and kissed him, and they wept.”

(ESV)

Introduction

Esau was born first, red and hairy, with his twin Jacob gripping his heel. He grew up a skillful hunter, a man of the field, and Isaac loved him for the game he brought home. One day he came in exhausted and sold his birthright to Jacob for a bowl of red stew. Scripture sums it up: Esau despised his birthright.

Later Jacob, with their mother's help, took Isaac's blessing too. Esau cried out with an exceedingly great and bitter cry and planned to kill his brother. Twenty years passed. When Jacob finally came home, terrified, with gifts sent ahead, Esau ran to meet him, embraced him, kissed him, and wept. He said he had enough and did not need the gifts. He settled in Seir and became the father of Edom.

But Esau ran to meet him and embraced him and fell on his neck and kissed him, and they wept.

(ESV)
Name means
Linked to “hairy” (); also called Edom, “red” ()
Home
Beersheba, then the hill country of Seir
Role
Firstborn of Isaac; father of the Edomites
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Esau's story

Running to meet his brother
  1. Beginning

    Born first

    A hunter, his father's favorite.

  2. Turning point

    A bowl of stew

    He sells his birthright.

  3. Low point

    The blessing stolen

    A great and bitter cry.

  4. Low point

    Plotting revenge

    He means to kill Jacob.

  5. Turning point

    Four hundred men

    He comes out to meet his brother.

  6. Ending

    He ran to meet him

    An embrace, a kiss, and tears.

Starts as a hungry firstborn. Ends as a brother who ran to forgive.

Where Esau lived and went

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How Esau is wired

The Enthusiast

Enneagram 7, Challenger wing

To be satisfied and not to go without.

Scripture doesn't give us much here, so treat this as a best guess.

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Why we think so

  1. Lives for now. He trades his birthright for a meal. ()

  2. Out in the field. A skillful hunter, a man of the field. ()

  3. Moves on. Twenty years later, he says, I have enough. ()

His anger is big and direct, and he arrives with four hundred men. ()

Other lenses

Big Five. Read from what is recorded in Genesis.

DISC style: Physical, impulsive, warm-hearted.

Strengths & struggles

What's good in Esau

Skillful in the field (). Honored his father (). Forgave his brother ().

Where Esau struggles

Lived for the moment (; ). Rage after the stolen blessing (). Married to grieve his parents ().

What Esau wanted most

His father's blessing ().

What Esau feared most

Going without; he said he was about to die ().

Esau's people

The Lord

The LORDHebrews warns us not to be like Esau, who sold his birthright for a single meal ().

Family

IsaacHis father, who loved him and his game (Gen 25:28).RebekahHis mother, who helped Jacob take his blessing (Gen 27:5-17).IshmaelHis uncle and father-in-law (Gen 28:9).AbrahamHis grandfather (Gen 25:19-26).

Tension

JacobHis twin, who took his birthright and blessing, then was embraced (Gen 27; 33:4).

Family of Faith

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AbrahamJesus

c. 2006–1880 BC (debated). Connected to Jesus through Jacob → The woman at the well.

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Where this points to Christ

Esau traded his inheritance for a meal; in Christ, the inheritance is kept for us.

Hebrews holds Esau up as a warning: he sold his birthright for a single meal (). In Christ, God gives us an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled and unfading, kept in heaven (). And Esau's run to embrace Jacob points ahead to the father in Jesus' parable who ran, embraced and kissed his son ().

Questions to sit with

What is your bowl of stew, the thing that feels urgent but costs too much?

Esau ran to embrace the brother who wronged him. Who might you run toward?

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