Laban: Bible Character Study

Introduction

Laban first appears running out to meet Abraham's servant, after he saw the ring and bracelets on his sister Rebekah. Years later, Rebekah's son Jacob arrived in Haran with nothing, and Laban welcomed him as his own flesh. Jacob loved Laban's younger daughter Rachel and worked seven years for her. On the wedding night Laban gave him Leah instead, and Jacob worked seven more.

For twenty years Laban prospered because of Jacob and changed his wages ten times. When Jacob left in secret, Laban chased him to the hill country of Gilead, but God warned him in a dream not to harm him. The two made a covenant there with a heap of stones and a pillar. Laban kissed his grandchildren and daughters, blessed them, and went home.

The LORD watch between you and me, when we are out of one another's sight.
(ESV)

Name means: “White” (Hebrew)
Home: Haran, in Paddan-aram
Role: Herdsman; father of Leah and Rachel
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Laban's story

Beginning
Running to the well
He welcomes Abraham's servant.
High point
My bone and my flesh
He takes Jacob in.
Low point
The wedding switch
He gives Leah in place of Rachel.
Low point
Wages changed ten times
He grows rich through Jacob.
Turning point
The chase to Gilead
God warns him in a dream.
Ending
A heap and a pillar
A covenant, a blessing, and home.

Starts as a welcoming brother. Ends as a father-in-law bound by covenant.

Where Laban lived and went

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How Laban is wired

The Achiever

Enneagram 3, Helper wing

To succeed and be seen to prosper.

Scripture doesn't give us much here, so treat this as a best guess.

At their best, toward 6 Under stress, toward 9

Why we think so

Eye on wealth. He runs out after seeing the gold on his sister. ()
Deal maker. Name your wages, and I will give it. ()
Saves face. It is not so done in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn. ()

He wraps his deals in warm hospitality. ()

Other lenses

Big Five. Read from what is recorded in Genesis.

ReservedOutgoing

SteadyReactive

ChallengingAccommodating

SpontaneousDisciplined

TraditionalCurious

DISC style: Shrewd, persuasive, calculating.

Strengths & struggles

What's good in Laban

Hospitable (). Heeded God's warning (). Loved his grandchildren ().

Where Laban struggles

Deceived Jacob at the wedding (). Changed his wages ten times (). Kept household gods ().

What Laban wanted most

To prosper; he learned by divination that the LORD blessed him because of Jacob ().

What Laban feared most

Losing what he saw as his: his daughters, flocks and gods ().

Laban's people

The Lord

The LORDWarned him in a dream not to harm Jacob ().

Family

LeahHis older daughter, given to Jacob in Rachel's place (Gen 29:23).

RachelHis younger daughter, who stole his household gods (Gen 31:19).

RebekahHis sister, whom he sent off to marry Isaac (Gen 24:59-60).

Tension

JacobNephew and son-in-law, whom he deceived for twenty years (Gen 31:38-42).

Family of Faith

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AbrahamJesus

c. 2050–1900 BC (debated). Connected to Jesus through Jacob → The woman at the well.

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Where this points to Christ

Laban kept changing the terms; God kept his.

Jacob could say that God had not permitted Laban to harm him (). Laban's word shifted, but God's promise to Jacob held. In Christ, all the promises of God find their Yes (), and Jesus is the guarantor of a better covenant (), one that no one can rewrite.