She came to draw water from Jacob's well at about the sixth hour, around noon. A tired Jewish man was sitting there, and he asked her for a drink. That alone was startling: Jews did not use things in common with Samaritans, and men did not usually speak with women this way. She said so.
Jesus offered her living water. She asked questions, turned the conversation to where people should worship, and kept him at arm's length. He told her to call her husband. She said she had none, and he told her she had had five husbands, and the man she had now was not her husband. Then he told her plainly that he was the Messiah. She left her water jar, went into town and said, Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did. Many Samaritans believed because of her word.
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Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did.
Name means
Her name is not recorded
Home
Sychar, a town in Samaria
Role
A Samaritan woman
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The woman at the well's story
The water jar left behind
Beginning
Noon at the well
A Jewish man asks her for a drink.
Turning point
Living water
Give me this water, she says.
Low point
Go call your husband
He knows her whole story.
Turning point
Where to worship
She turns to theology; he speaks of worship in spirit and truth.
High point
I who speak to you am he
Jesus tells her he is the Messiah.
Ending
Come, see
She leaves her jar and brings the town.
Starts as a woman with a past, alone at noon. Ends as the evangelist of her own town.
Where The woman at the well lived and went
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Her story happens at Sychar.
How The woman at the well is wired
The Enthusiast
Enneagram 7, Loyalist wing
To find what will finally satisfy.
Scripture doesn't give us much here, so treat this as a best guess.
At their best, toward 5 Under stress, toward 1
Why we think so
1
Quick and lively. She meets each of his statements with a ready, sharp reply. ()
2
Steers away from pain. When he names her past, she moves to a debate about worship. ()
3
Runs to share. She leaves her jar and tells everyone. ()
She frames her questions through her people's heritage: our father Jacob, our fathers worshiped here. ()
The Investigator. She stops deflecting and lets herself be fully known: he told me all that I ever did. ()
The Reformer. Little recorded.
Why so tentative
We have one conversation. Her quickness could reflect many types, and the text does not reveal her motives.
Other lenses
Big Five. Read from what he says and does in the Gospels and Acts.
She came for water and met the one who gives living water.
Jesus said whoever drinks the water he gives will never be thirsty again (). He knew everything she had done and still offered it. Her town ended up saying he is indeed the Savior of the world ().
Questions to sit with
1
What are you drinking from that keeps leaving you thirsty?
2
When Jesus got personal, she changed the subject. Where do you deflect with him?
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