Orpah was a Moabite woman who married Chilion, one of Naomi's sons. After ten years Naomi's husband and both sons had died, leaving three widows. When Naomi set out for Bethlehem, both daughters-in-law started down the road with her, and both said, No, we will return with you to your people.
Naomi urged them to go back to their mothers' houses and find new husbands, and prayed that the LORD would deal kindly with them. They wept aloud. Orpah kissed her mother-in-law and went back, and Ruth clung to her. Scripture does not blame Orpah. She did what Naomi asked. Her choice is the quiet, sensible one that makes Ruth's look so remarkable.
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Then they lifted up their voices and wept again. And Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to her.
Name means
Uncertain; often linked to “neck” or “back”
Home
Moab
Role
Widow and daughter-in-law of Naomi
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Orpah's story
Back to her mother's house
Beginning
A wife in Moab
She marries Naomi's son Chilion.
Low point
Three widows
Her husband dies.
Turning point
On the road
We will return with you.
Ending
A kiss goodbye
She goes back to her people.
Starts as a loving daughter-in-law. Ends as a widow who went home.
Where Orpah lived and went
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Scripture places her only in Moab.
How Orpah is wired
Why there's no type here
Orpah says only one line in Scripture, too little to type her honestly.
Strengths & struggles
What's good in Orpah
Kindness to the dead and to Naomi (). Willing to go at first (). Honored Naomi's wish ().
Where Orpah struggles
She turned back to her people and her gods ().
What Orpah wanted most
Scripture does not say. Naomi prayed she would find rest in a husband's house ().
Orpah's road shows how wide Ruth's step was, and how wide God's welcome is.
Orpah went back to her people and her gods (). Ruth crossed over and is named in the family line of Jesus (). Jesus still calls people to leave and follow him (), and he welcomes outsiders from every nation (), Moabites included.
Questions to sit with
1
Orpah made the sensible choice. When has following God felt less sensible than going home?
2
Where are you at a fork in the road right now?
Study Orpah with your group
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