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Orpah

Naomi's other Moabite daughter-in-law, who wept, kissed her goodbye and went home, as Naomi urged her to.

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Naomi's other Moabite daughter-in-law, who wept, kissed her goodbye and went home, as Naomi urged her to.

  • Loving
  • Sensible
  • Home

“Then they lifted up their voices and wept again. And Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to her.”

(ESV)

Introduction

Orpah was a Moabite woman who married Chilion, one of Naomi's sons. After ten years Naomi's husband and both sons had died, leaving three widows. When Naomi set out for Bethlehem, both daughters-in-law started down the road with her, and both said, No, we will return with you to your people.

Naomi urged them to go back to their mothers' houses and find new husbands, and prayed that the LORD would deal kindly with them. They wept aloud. Orpah kissed her mother-in-law and went back, and Ruth clung to her. Scripture does not blame Orpah. She did what Naomi asked. Her choice is the quiet, sensible one that makes Ruth's look so remarkable.

Then they lifted up their voices and wept again. And Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to her.

(ESV)
Name means
Uncertain; often linked to “neck” or “back”
Home
Moab
Role
Widow and daughter-in-law of Naomi
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Orpah's story

Back to her mother's house
  1. Beginning

    A wife in Moab

    She marries Naomi's son Chilion.

  2. Low point

    Three widows

    Her husband dies.

  3. Turning point

    On the road

    We will return with you.

  4. Ending

    A kiss goodbye

    She goes back to her people.

Starts as a loving daughter-in-law. Ends as a widow who went home.

Where Orpah lived and went

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Moab
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Scripture places her only in Moab.

How Orpah is wired

Why there's no type here

Orpah says only one line in Scripture, too little to type her honestly.

Strengths & struggles

What's good in Orpah

Kindness to the dead and to Naomi (). Willing to go at first (). Honored Naomi's wish ().

Where Orpah struggles

She turned back to her people and her gods ().

What Orpah wanted most

Scripture does not say. Naomi prayed she would find rest in a husband's house ().

What Orpah feared most

Scripture does not say.

Orpah's people

Family

NaomiHer mother-in-law, who urged her to go home (Ruth 1:8-14).RuthHer sister-in-law, who clung to Naomi when she turned back (Ruth 1:14).
ChilionHer husband, who died in Moab ().

Family of Faith

See where Orpah fits

AbrahamJesus

c. 1150–1090 BC (debated). Connected to Jesus through Ruth → Rahab.

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Where this points to Christ

Orpah's road shows how wide Ruth's step was, and how wide God's welcome is.

Orpah went back to her people and her gods (). Ruth crossed over and is named in the family line of Jesus (). Jesus still calls people to leave and follow him (), and he welcomes outsiders from every nation (), Moabites included.

Questions to sit with

Orpah made the sensible choice. When has following God felt less sensible than going home?

Where are you at a fork in the road right now?

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